Wedding Countdown Calendar ^
Tasks Comments Start date End date Done Action Party
Decide and book Date & Venue
Check - Is there an auspicious date/ time for
- the wedding ceremony
- traditional/ religious rituals
Together with respective family members, discuss dowry, other cultural customs and traditions
that must be carried out; are there any colors not permitted ( like black/white ) ?
Purchase Wedding Dress, Groom's Suit, and accessories for :
1. gate crashing
2. tea ceremony
3. solemnization ceremony
4. cocktail dress ( for pre-dinner cocktails with guests)
5. wedding dress ( buffer 6 -7 months upon ordering fr shops)
6. evening dress
7. after-dinner party dress
Décor - Think about Wedding Theme / Color
Set a Budget :
- Wedding Banquet ( including Alcohol )
- Wedding Attire
- Decoration
- Photography / Videography
- Entertainment
- Miscellaneous
Wedding Planner (If you are based overseas or both have a heavy workload, you might
consider hiring one. )
Start to compile the Guest list and addresses ( to get estimate headcount)
Choose flowergirls/page-boys/ bridesmaids/ groomsmen. Alert Maid of Honor and Best Man
that they have to make a speech.
Decide on attire for wedding entourage. Depending on budget, provide specific photos of bridal
party attire to ensure everyone has similar outfits.
Helpers required for:
- Overall IC ( 1 pax )
- Guest reception list ( 4 pax for upwards of 200 guests)
- Ang Bao IC ( 2 pax )
- Bride's Helper ( 1 pax )
- Emcee ( 2 pax - english and chinese )
- Assistant to help during table to table photo-taking
Chinese Tea Ceremony Helper : Ask a relative who is familiar enough to help with the tea
ceremony to help. ( Decide on the serving sequence, and if it is expected of the couple to
kneel)
Book caterer ( not only for the ceremony but also during the gate crashing session and tea
ceremony if need be )
Book florist ( wedding decorater in case you would like to personalise menu, have seating
name cards )
Book Photographer ( arrange for transport ) . Brief him specifically or show him examples
about the types of shots you like eg: emotional, candid, staged, black and white, landscape,
profile, family shots, etc
Book videographer. Decide if you need video express highlights (arrange for transport )
Book wedding band and DJ
- request a song list and youtube videos of their singers/performance before you confirm their
services.
- check if they require dinner during the banquet
- are they a suitable after-party band
- do they provide their own sound system
- check if their equipment is compatible with your own music device.
Start thinking about entertainment for guests to participate in during cocktail sessions. Eg: Fun
Instant Photobooths, Caricature, display wedding photos in different frames; wedding guest
book ; an open bar where bartender can flare;
If budget is a concern, look into providing Free-of-Charge creatives like Mad - Ad Libs ( refer to
our FB post on good examples! )
Book Secondary photographers ( roving photographers who can double up as secondary
photographer to follow bride/groom's parents around ) They send photos to print immediately
which doubles-up as souvenirs for guests.
Start thinking about Stationary and Wedding Invitation Cards.
- 2 weeks to finalise design, 4 weeks to print
- Invitations to be sent 6 - 8 weeks before the wedding.
Start thinking about wedding favors ( its is ok if you're unsure of the final numbers. One month
before the wedding, confirm numbers with the supplier again.
Think about your Guest book. These days, writing well-wishes in a book can be rather passe.
Get guests to leave their well-wishes on something that characterises the both of you. I have
found the following sites very useful:
http://inspiringpretty.com/2011/10/24/12-unique-wedding-guestbook-ideas/
or
: http://www.bespoke-bride.com/2012/04/17/21-alternative-unique-guest-book-ideas/
Start regular exercise regime , facial / beauty treatments
Arrange trial make-up/ hair session with MUA
- ensure bridal accessories ( veil / headpieces ) are shown to the MUA
Decide on bridal car and driver. Transportation for family members/ friends
Look around or order wedding shoes for bride and groom
Go for studio / outdoor pre-wedding photoshoot / videoshoots
Finalise design for wedding invitation cards
Prepare initial guest list and seating plan
Send out Save-the-Date mailer
Buy flower basket and ring pillow ( if need be)
Ensure tea ceremony tea-sets, red umbrella, red handkerchief, kua, are ready
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